Tuesday, 5 March 2013

Arrival in Matara

cows at the seaside surely not??
March 4th  - so this is going to be it for the next 12 months - all alone in the southernmost city of Matara in a compact 2 bedroom flat with a rather nice terrace.  A very big extended family live downstairs and 2 swedish guys who never seem to come out of their house.  The first night I encountered a huge cockroach - OK no big deal but it jumped out at me from a bag I was removing from the cupboard and I thought I had trapped it under a can of coconut milk but 2 days later it disappeared - I am sure its still lurking although I am being meticulous about sweeping up all food etc .  Also that first night there was a power cut - they said 30 minutes, which turned into 14 hours - the family below were very solicitous and gave me an emergency light and I had two wonderful torchesfor christmas but they couldn't do anything about the heat.  I slept fitfully under a bright pink mosquito net !  The next day  I ventured to the shops and to the beach - you will see that Matara is not the most beautiul of beaches but the sea is warm - the waves are too big to swim or the current is too strong - anyway people do not swim there so I will have to wait.  I met my boss who called in to see me on Sunday - he said three o clock and he came at half past then he left after a rather uncomfortable 2 hours to get curry and beer, coming back at 7 which turned into 8!  You see what I mean about time.  I managed to get a sea walk in before he came back.
Actually he is a nice guy - young and very enthusiastic - he speaks very fast and with a very heavy accent and so I don't understand a word he says and he doesn't seem to understand me which I am sure will improve.  He seems to want me to do fund raising - i.e. writing funding proposals and a bit of mentoring with the staff  and to promote the academy they have running .  They seem to have the management covered.  At the moment I don't think either of us has quite got the other sussed and neither of us know who is in charge of who - it will work itself out I'm sure. 
Went to work this morning - the driver was due at 8 and came at 25 past - and I have my own room and it has air conditioning and they have wi fi - so that's good . I met the staff -they are young and don't speak huge amounts of english - they seem to think I am American.  That first morning there was a TV show being shot at the academy which involved about 30 students - equal numbers young men and women - probably aged between 17-20.  They were all interviewed and then they sang some songs had a little dance , there were some traditional dancers too and all that lasted 3 hours - like being in a karaoke bar without alcohol.  The students loved it and so did the staff - at the end I was forced to dance - lets all laugh at the old white lady try to dance you might be thinking but they genuinely seemed to love it that I would even try.  Interesting culteral note - the girls and boys kept separate - they all giggled and postured a lot in a good hearted and quite respectful way - they seem so much more innocent than English 18-20 year olds.
 So I did some dancing and I bought a bike - not bad for a first day at work!  No idea quite when I am going to start doing some work.  I am going to a peace an reconcilation day on Wednesday which will be good .  I am sure  that things will progress and it is only the first day ...................
One of the many Budhist temples - it is cloudy but its still hot!
No bikins here !



5 comments:

  1. Wow, Mary! I had no ides about any of this but I'll be reading your blog regularly from now on.
    In awe, Sue Williams

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  2. Sounds just what you wanted a chance for strictly come dancing..perhaps you could set it up out there.....or Sri Lanka has got talent? Is there a public swimming baths? Have you given your cockroach a name yet?? Where is picture of bike?
    Love Sue

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  3. Hello Mary, lovely to hear from you. Can hardly believe you're in Sri Lanka, how wonderful! A million miles away from the ole 9 to 5 job of days of old. I'll be sure to follow your blog, keep in touch and hope you're not missing Blighty too much (it's been warm today which prob won't last!) Julie (Bracewell)xx

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  4. Hi Mary!
    What a world away from evaluating bids for EM Contracts!!! It looks fantastic and I'm in awe of your bravery and adventurous spirit! Just disappointed that there are no pics of YOU dancing! I'll keep in touch and look forward to your dear diary moments! Enjoy! Barry x

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  5. Hi Mar!
    Great stories!! Im so glad you have a place and are getting settled, albeit a bit rocky here and there. Still loving the time issue with people. Something to get used to for sure! Glad your work has wifi and air conditioning. Absolutely go swimming (in the shallows) in your bikini. Show those locals what a crazy white lady from America is all about! ;)
    Keep up the updates! Love you, Meg xx

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